I am sure you are snozzing away right now. But I thought I'd share this find with you. I think I found how to change the boot order. I had to go to Lenovo support to find this:
https://pcsupport.lenovo.com/us/en/solutions/HT104668
To make matter worse microsoft decided I have shut down and restarted my puter too many times and made me jump through hoops for an hour before I could get back into my machine.. ugg !! Oh.. I know, they are just trying to keep us safe. Once I get Ubuntu up and running I won't have to deal with Microsoft anymore, except occasionally to do stuff I can't on Ubuntu.
You have been very kind to give up some of your time to help me. I do appreciate it. However, I am disappointed that more people did not chime in with just the info I need. I get it that this is a volunteer operation. But if dummies like me can't make Linux work for us, that leaves a lot of folks stuck with MS Windows. I want to be clear I am not knocking any of you people that have tried to help me. Thank you one and all. It is probably all my fault anyway.
Maybe I'm too dumb to own a computer??
Sucess- sort of. When Lenovo logo appears I repeatedly and rapidly pressed F12. I was then given the option to boot from USB stick. Unfortunately when tried to use wifi in the live USB, or whatever it's called, it said no network adapter is detected. I think it might work if I were to plug into an Ethernet cable, because instructions on the install window said to be sure and be online when you install so that wifi and other software can be downloaded. So maybe my whole problem is that I am not on a wired network. Oh well. Live and learn. Learn and forget.
I don't know if this is useful but I managed to pair up my smart phone with Ubuntu. Is it possible to transfer files or drivers that way? Text in the Bluetooth window on Ubuntu says: 'available for file transfers. transferred files are placed in the downloads folder'.
I could have a triple boot system- win10, mint, ubuntu. But that option requires a lot of time, because everything on the Mint partition has to be written to disc first. I am not willing to get rid of Mint yet. I still don't know if Ubuntu will work or need a driver for the wifi adapter. But Ubuntu is not saying it lacks a driver. It is saying it does not detect the wifi adapter in the machine. Ugg !!
I just discovered another way to get files into Mint or Ubuntu. You can save them in window and get to them from Mint or Ubuntu by doing this: 'https://askubuntu.com/questions/145992/ubuntu-doesnt-recognise-my-wireless-adapter#146058'
If nothing else this post is a record of my attempts and failures. That might be worthwhile info for others. Everything you need to know is on the internet. The trick is finding it- just like its a trick finding stuff on a computer. Knowing what, how and where to search is a good skill to have.