ok, im gonna try and help you, i got mine working, but im not sure how much I can help, cause I used the drivers from the portage tree in gentoo
you need to compile your kernel, with module support, which i see uv done
u need to compile the nvidia kernel module, and load the module
then you need to compile the xfree86 driver, and put it in /usr/X11R6/lib/modules/drivers
then, in XF86Config, load nvidia instead of nv
Driver "nvidia"
The versions i have are:
* media-video/nvidia-glx
Latest version available: 1.0.4496
Latest version installed: 1.0.4496
Size of downloaded files: 5,005 kB
Homepage:
http://www.nvidia.com/
Description: XFree86 GLX libraries for the NVIDIA's X driver
License: NVIDIA
* media-video/nvidia-kernel
Latest version available: 1.0.4496-r3
Latest version installed: 1.0.4496-r3
Size of downloaded files: 5,005 kB
Homepage:
http://www.nvidia.com/
Description: Linux kernel module for the NVIDIA's X driver
License: NVIDIA
The Kernel im using is vanilla 2.6.3
To just get some basic XFree86 running, you should be able to start it up with the
Driver "vesa"
or Driver "nv"
Let me know if this helps, but it looks like uv already tried this stuff, but i thought id post anyways to see...