More info:
1) Windows2003r2 using 3com TFTP (sorry just the way it is)
3com tftp--> pxelinux --> initrd.img (using menu of course)
2) I have made a similiar disk with KNOPPIX for Damn Small Linux using a great tutorial I found.
http://www.damnsmalllinux.org/f/topic-3-26-15960-0.html
3) rhel-server-5.4-i386-dvd.iso (redhat.com via account only)
files I am trying to use:
/images/pxeboot/initrd.img
/images/pxeboot/vmlinuz
/images/stage2.img
The tutorial for DSL leads me to think something similiar for Red Hat is possible, I just need some real help. Or if someone has a turorial that would be awesome. I don't want to use a kickstart via fixed IP, or NFS/HTTP/FTP. (I already can do that) I just need this for a pxe "linux rescue" via only TFTP (aka 1 bigger initrd.img)