ok here is mine... thanx for the help so far...
also my server isnt accepting the connections anymore? for some reason?
when i do the MX check at dnsreport.com for thisspace.net it finds teh DNS fine, but when i try to get it to send and email by putting
postmaster@thisspace.net it comes back with
Trying to connect to all mailservers:
mail.thisspace.net. - 203.82.165.117 [Could not connect: Could not connect to mail server (connection refused by remote mailserver). NOTE: Per the RFCs, mailservers are allowed to continuously retry this server until it is back online, and not try other MX records (RFC2821 3.9).]
[root@localhost ~]# ls -l /var/qmail/control
total 52
lrwxrwxrwx 1 root root 33 Mar 31 20:45 clientcert.pem -> /var/qmail/control/servercert.pem
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 3 Mar 31 21:14 concurrencyincoming
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 4 Mar 31 21:14 concurrencyremote
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 10 Mar 31 21:14 defaultdelivery
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 14 Mar 31 20:44 defaultdomain
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 33 Apr 6 13:07 locals
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 14 Mar 31 20:44 me
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 14 Mar 31 20:44 plusdomain
-rw------- 1 root root 9 Apr 1 01:11 queuelifetime
-rw------- 1 root root 0 Apr 1 01:09 queuelifetime.txt~
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 33 Apr 4 14:46 rcpthosts
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 15 Apr 4 15:24 rcpthosts~
-rw-r----- 1 vpopmail qmail 2205 Mar 31 20:45 servercert.pem
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 14 Apr 6 00:26 smtproutes
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 28 Mar 31 21:03 virtualdomains
-rw------- 1 root root 0 Mar 31 21:03 virtualdomains.lock
and in the tutorial where i am meant to put my site in i should be putting mail.thisspace.net and not thisspace.net right?
thanx