You have a good video card in that laptop.. do you have the proprietary nvidia Drivers installed ? they do NOT get installed by default because they are not free drivers..
http://wiki.debian.org/NvidiaGraphicsDrivers
You must have non-free repositories enabled in your sources list for the following to work.
CTRL + AL + F2 - to get to a command prompt
Log in as root
/etc/init.d/gdm stop
aptitude update
aptitude install module-assistant build-essential
m-a update
m-a prepare
m-a a-i nvidia-kernel
aptitude install nvidia-glx
dpkg-reconfigure xserver-xorg
When the reconfiguartion script with that last command,
Select
nvidia as the driver
unselect
dri
select
glx
then restart the X server
/etc/init.d/gdm start
That should fix your video playback issues.
If an update breaks your graphics in the future, just repeat the procedure starting with m-a update, and skipping the dpkg-reconfigure steps because the configuration is already done.