Ok, I decided to completely edit this post because my problem has completely changed
I have openwebmail setup and imap installed so I can check email sent to my computer
I have postfix installed, but I really am not understanding it. I was getting an error that says: "User unknown in local recipient table" and I couldnt figure out how to fix that, so I used "local_recipient_maps = " so it doesnt look up.
Now, I can send a message through (I have been telneting to port 25 to view the server messages) and it appears that the message gets sent. server says "250 Ok: queued as 5494938653D" and I quit, and then try to check mail with openwebmail and it still shows no messages.
I cant find anything on here for searching as to how to get postfix working, and I cant find anything in the docs that will help me towards understanding what is happening.
I know someone on this forum has postfix working and could help a