OK, problem turned out to be something with the way the provided VNC server is configured. I went ahead and did the update to the vnc4server (and common and reader), and then it started using the xstartup file as expected. The xstartup file that ended up working for me was:
Code:
[ -r $HOME/.Xresources ] && xrdb $HOME/.Xresources
/usr/bin/startkde &
So, now all I have to do is figure out how to get that to autoload after a reboot and I should be in good shape to move on to other challenges