Well, the only thing I've used for user space stuff is
free -lm. The line
Code:
-/+ buffers/cache: 58 699
shows the user space RAM free used and free. The top three lines are showing ram that's cached, etc, so they don't matter much to me. The bottom one is SWAP of course and has never been anything other than 0 used and 509 free.
Since the user space RAM line doesn't add up to all my RAM, I just assume the kernel is using whatever else...