Hi,
You can't connect to server X because obviously X is not installed. You need to apt-get
xserver-xfree86, xserver-common, x-utils, x-window-system-core, x-fonts should be nice, too.
I advise you run apttitude, that will give you an option to install all x-related packages.
Once all this is done, you have to run the command 'startx' to get in to a Graphical user interface.
To set X right (optimum resolution and mouse parameters perhaps) you'll have to run
Code:
dpkg-reconfigure xserver-xfree86
Hope it helps
regards