1. I'd say you somehow have to add those packages to /etc/apt/preferences. You have to insert the packages apt-listbugs gives in this file and in the proper syntax, like this:
"Package:*
Pin: release a=unstable
Pin-Priority:1001"
I don't know enough about bash and sid that I could do this but I'm sure it's possible
I don't use apt-listbugs so I don't know how it works but you might have a problem removing a package from the pin later.
2) Don't you have to specify which branch after the -t e.g. apt-get -t unstable upgrade?
3) Read the apt-howto on the priority numbers for pinning. It'll explain what each number does in there.
3) unstable doesn't have security updates I think, just the normal updates. Etch has security updates which you can enable by copying the stable line for security updates and changing stable to testing.