If it's just for management purposes you can use SSH.
Code:
slackware-host$ ssh user@debian.local
If you need a single X client (a GUI text editor, for example) you can forward the client over SSH to your X server on Slackware. Easier to set up than xdmcp.
Code:
slackware-host$ ssh -Y user@debian.local
debian.local$ mousepad
mousepad will be forwarded to the X server on Slackware.
If you need the entire desktop then set up a VNC server on Debian. x11vnc allows you to connect to the real X server on Debian, the display as you see it when sitting at the Debian console. Other VNC servers create virtual X displays.
Since it's a home network you can forgo some of the security precautions you would otherwise take.