Well with so many other things going on, I managed to get it working, so for the 40+ people who viewed and might care, this is what I have as a band-aid until things are found;
#!/bin/bash
loadavg=`uptime | awk '{print $10}'`
thisloadavg=`echo $loadavg|awk -F \. '{print $1}'`
if [ "$thisloadavg" -ge "10" ]; then
echo "Webserver 5 alert - Load Average $loadavg ($thisloadavg)> /tmp/loadtmp "
mail -s "Alert Sever 5 load GT 10, restarting CF and Apache"
mycell@txt.att.net < /home/user/loadtmp
killall -9 httpd
/home/user/local/coldfusion/bin/coldfusion stop
sleep 30
/home/user/local/coldfusion/bin/coldfusion start
/home/user/local/apache2/bin/apachectl start
else
echo "Okay - Load Average $loadavg ($thisloadavg) "
fi