Hi I am from Yugoslavia so don't laught to me because my bad English.I have few questions for you about compiling MPlayer and instaling him.
First i download MPlayer-0.90.tar.bz2 unpacking him and read README file.After using ./configure,make,make install and run ldd ./mplayer to check which libraries fail I get this:
libdv.so.2 => /usr/lib/libdv.so.2 (0x40027000)
libz.so.1 => /lib/libz.so.1 (0x40050000)
libjpeg.so.62 => /usr/lib/libjpeg.so.62 (0x40060000)
libcdda_interface.so.0 => /usr/lib/libcdda_interface.so.0 (0x4007f000)
libcdda_paranoia.so.0 => /usr/lib/libcdda_paranoia.so.0 (0x40091000)
libnsl.so.1 => /lib/libnsl.so.1 (0x40099000)
libungif.so.4 => /usr/lib/libungif.so.4 (0x400ae000)
libXext.so.6 => /usr/X11R6/lib/libXext.so.6 (0x400b6000)
libX11.so.6 => /usr/X11R6/lib/libX11.so.6 (0x400c6000)
libdirectfb-0.9.so.16 => /usr/lib/libdirectfb-0.9.so.16 (0x40194000)
liblirc_client.so.0 => /usr/lib/liblirc_client.so.0 (0x401da000)
libpthread.so.0 => /lib/libpthread.so.0 (0x401df000)
libdl.so.2 => /lib/libdl.so.2 (0x4022f000)
libm.so.6 => /lib/libm.so.6 (0x40232000)
libc.so.6 => /lib/libc.so.6 (0x40255000)
libresmgr.so.0.1 => /lib/libresmgr.so.0.1 (0x4038b000)
libSDL-1.2.so.0 => /usr/lib/libSDL-1.2.so.0 (0x4038f000)
libartsc.so.0 => /opt/kde3/lib/libartsc.so.0 (0x4040b000)
libesd.so.0 => /usr/lib/libesd.so.0 (0x40412000)
libaudiofile.so.0 => /usr/lib/libaudiofile.so.0 (0x4041b000)
libasound.so.2 => /usr/lib/libasound.so.2 (0x40441000)
libaa.so.1 => /usr/lib/libaa.so.1 (0x404d1000)
libslang.so.1 => /usr/lib/libslang.so.1 (0x404eb000)
libgpm.so.1 => /usr/lib/libgpm.so.1 (0x4055f000)
/lib/ld-linux.so.2 => /lib/ld-linux.so.2 (0x40000000)
libncurses.so.5 => /lib/libncurses.so.5 (0x40565000)
In README file writes to fix this problem type ldconfig so i do that but no changes.How to fix this problem?
2nd question is how to get player skin(with play,stop,rew and other controls)when start MPlayer?TNX

You have to configure with the gui option like this: ./configure --gui-enable

man mplayer for more details..

About the lib problems.. do you have all those lib's installed? I don't think they are all required to run mplayer though, can you start or view a video with mplayer with any problems?

mplayer <filename>

Yes but i dont have player and i subtitles.

What? I don't understand what you mean by that? Ellaborate please, more details?

when start mplayer <moviepath> movie go on in window but i don't know to set subtitles and i don't have grapfical player.

You can view all the options and such by viewing the man pages:

man mplayer

You have to ./configure it from the beginning to enable the gui interface. Read the README and INSTALL files that were in the directory you ./configured from.. its all there, right under your nose.