the gui yumex has never worked well
and the gui app "apper" for updates is mostly busted / broken
use yum
cent and REHL are basically server class OS's with a desktop gui added in
Also 6.4 is unsupported , there are NO updates
now depending on how you set it up 6.4 might have auto upgraded to CentOS 6.5
to check if it is 6.4 or 6.5 run ( in the terminal )
Code:
su -
cat /etc/redhat-release