I don't mean to be rude, but
man urxvt works better than guessing.
Here's the relevant parts of my .Xdefaults:
Code:
XTerm*scrollBar:true
URxvt*font:xft:Terminus:pixelsize=16
URxvt*reverseVideo:true
URxvt*saveLines:65535
URxvt*tintColor:grey
URxvt*shading:35
URxvt*loginShell:true
URxvt*inheritPixmap:true
URxvt*termName:xterm
URxvt*loginShell: true
URxvt*reverseVideo: true
I'm using Dimitar Zhekov's "Terminus" font, which isn't an anti-aliasable font but is my personal favourite console font. The "termName:xterm" is a hack to get w3m to work.
Some people on the gentoo forums use
Code:
Urxvt*inheritPixmap: True
Urxvt*tintColor: white
Urxvt*shading: 20
but I find that less readable.