Ok i managed to get it working (not sure how), but i did manually move some sta driver files into the firmware folder and the /lib/moduales/kernel/net (i stuck b43 folder), and tried installing the sta driver using cd packages from lucid 10.04 (i must say that the STA driver as worked without fault on lucid) wich proberbly got it working and re-booted-(but i had tried this from package manager about 3 times before to no avail), then i followed these instructions
http://wireless.kernel.org/en/users/...and_installing , to change to b43-fwcutter and use the b43 driver, but even now it crashs when i use certaimn software and i have to reload the driver everytime i boot ( i know i could write a script to modprobe the driver on start up - not sure how to but iḿ gonna look into it), atleast it working now and sort of does what i want......
STILL NOT SORTED IT ALWAYS ON CHANNEL -1 WHEN USING MONITOR MODE, EVEN THOW I REMOVED ALL THE NETWORKMANAGER....ETC