What makes you confident that it's a memory problem? Sounds more like a CD-Rom drive problem to me
I seriously doubt that you'll ever have problems in Linux related to memory management, aside from the possibility of not having enough. If you have more than about 64MB, then you shouldn't have much to worry about.
Try running 'top' while copying a CD, to see what is using up the CPU. Also, check the output of 'free' periodically (which is basically what GKrellm shows for available memory). If there's plenty of RAM available, then there's probably nothing wrong with memory; if, however, it's getting full and starting to do a lot of swapping, that could be the problem.