Thank you, everyone, for the replies. Between those, plus much googling and a great deal of Trial And Error, I've actually got both xterm and uxvrt to render that font the way I like.
This parameter was crucial in xterm command line:
Code:
-fa "xft:DejaVu Sans Mono:pixelsize=16:hinting=true:hintstyle=hintfull"
and for urxvt:
Code:
-fn "xft:Bitstream Vera Sans Mono:pixelsize=16:hinting=true:hintstyle=hintfull"
Note: neither one of those is the complete command line: lots of things for setting colors & stuff omitted for clarity.
note: I've also got settings in several files, but the font would not render until I added those parameters to the call of xterm and urxvt. Files created/modified: XTerm, .Xresource and .Xdefaults. The point is, between all of the interactions, maybe those parameters won't work on every system?