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Originally Posted by cousinlucky
One of my dear friends came back from Vietnam and tried to kill his wife with a Bible. They confined him to one of the top floors at a Veterans Administration Hospital to finish out his life. I never knew my father because he died during World War II. I am 65 years old with a terrible phobia about wearing suits.
I got this phobia as a youngster being dressed in a suit to go to another funeral of which there were many. Going to war destroys families and friendships; Going to war over trivialities is just plain stupid.
Defending your country from Invades is one thing; going to war for a corporation is another.
The drug pushers use the line; You are not a man if you don't take these drugs and many a teenagers listens to that bull----.
A woman's estimation of a man is stated many times as someone strong enough to support and discipline their children when it is necessary!!
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I've seen a lot of people I cared about get buried, but that's life. These things help to reinforce the fact that at any moment it can all be gone with no explanation, and with little regard to how you might feel about it, but that can't stop you, because you, and everyone else, are designed to be that way. You gotta push past everything that comes in your way, and not hold anything back. You're not here long enough to do everything you want to, and at the same time, you're here too long to simply float through it all without ever considering making it better.
It's ok, though. That's neither here nor there. My reference to manliness details a man, man=1. A man, thrown into Vietnam with little choice in the matter outside of being branded a traitor of course, can go there and bring peace to another individual, or group of individuals, regardless of who these people might be.
War is hell, certainly, but so are a lot of other things, and usually.. It's the people you're worried most about their ability to handle a situation that turn around and laugh at you as their organs fail.
This is humanity. We're born to die, and what we do between these two points is what makes life worth it, kinda not so much but a little bit worth it, and not worth it.
A good man understands that things.. inventions, and the like, are all very much temporary, and fixating on one particular subject will invariably lead to disappointment with ones self with regard to his ability to adapt. You're awesome at car mechanics? Good.. can you work on this brand new, completely different vehicle? You should be able to, the concept is the same.. The only thing that's changed is you've never even heard of this technology before, and everything looks different.
Will you say, "Nuh uh, I can't do that." or will you mount your knowledge of similar subjects and begin breaking down the new technology to achieve the goal of "The guy, who instead of only working on cars, is now labeled the one who fixes, rather than the one who fixes the car."
You can leave that one open to interpretation.
"The man who fixes"
will contain everything a man can fix.