Thanks mralk3, I'm aware of that procedure (it's in the man page) but I've some stuff I compile myself so I don't like running clean-system but I suppose that it would take care of the packages removed from the distro (like udev and portmapper) but since they have conflicting files/links it would still leave your system in an inconsistent state ... you would still need to reinstall eudev and rpcbind.
I think new-config runs automatically after upgrade-all as you get prompted for action on .new config files even old ones hanging around.
I wasn't asking for any help ... just wanted to warn others of the possible issues but thanks anyway