"Why didn't the normal linux option just adopt the new kernel"
The person who set up the Mandrake kernel rpm decided not to do it that way. I think that the idea of dual booting until the new kernel has proven to be reliable is a good one so I agree with the way that the new kernel rpm is set up.
"what will load if I boot into the normal linux option now?"
Probably it will boot your old kernel. Try it.
If you want to change the way that lilo works then log in as root, edit /etc/lilo.conf and then run the lilo command. I suggest that you first create a boot floppy in case your new lilo.conf has problems. Here is a lilo HOWTO:
http://tldp.org/HOWTO/LILO.html
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Steve Stites