here I answered my own question so I will post the config to help anyone else that may need it. You have no idea how frustrating this was until you actually attempt it.
In httpd.conf :
BrowserMatch "Microsoft Data Access Internet Publishing Provider" redirect-carefully
<Limit PUT POST DELETE PROPFIND PROPPATCH MKCOL COPY MOVE LOCK UNLOCK>
Authname "DAV write (right) access"