That won't log him in I'm afraid, it's good advice how to make X load at bootup but as I read the question X is started but OP needs to be logged in to the GUI on server.
metallica1973 why do you need to be logged in?
Do you know that you can run GUI-apps from server on your PC using ssh with X-forwarding?
In case you don't know, here's how:
In servers /etc/ssh/sshd_config, set
"X11Forwarding yes"
Then on client, log in with ssh:
"ssh -Y <me>@<server>"
you'll get a standard terminal, start your apps with for instance "kate &", the app will
run on server but is
displayed on your desktop.
If that is not enough & you want to log in to your desktop on server remotely, there are several "RemoteDesktop"-applications around. Haven't used any in Linux myself, but checkout this page:
http://www.mynitor.com/2010/02/07/15...ons-for-linux/
If this is no help to you, please return with info about why you have to be logged in on server.