Yes, the file you need to edit/make changes is in lilo.conf. At the very bottom, do you see a "other" line? For example,
Uncomment those lines.
1. Change other to point to your winme partition which would be: /dev/hdb1
2. Change label=WinME
After making the changes, you need to make it into affect so you will need to run 'lilo' afterwards. Now when you boot
up, you should see an option called WinME and upon clicking it, it would load WinME os for you. If that STILL doesn't
work, something else is messed up in your config file. Please paste it for us to see. Thanks and good luck.