I finally got it to compile
Although after I did these steps, the theme still wasn't available in the theme manager.
./configure --prefix=`kde-config --prefix`
make
make install
ldconfig
At fist I thought the ` marks were ' marks, so that was half my problem. So that's how I got it to compile and supposedly install at least .
I read somewhere that /usr/bin had to be in the path, so I added that and still no luck.
Anyway, thanks to everyone who read my thread and jalal for the help, but I'm probably going to get rid of Linux, as trivial problems like this really turn me off. It's only a damn theme and even after a day of messing around it won't work! That said, there were other things that turned me off, so I'm not just quitting because of that (AA fonts aren't consistent in all apps, sometimes keys have to be pressed twice for them to register, multiple files have to be edited to change the tiniest of settings etc).
Cheers,
Michael