don't mind at all! the last files are transferring now
In case anyone is tracing my footsteps in the future, here are some helpful details. Once the rsync server was running on the new debian machine (which was automatic just by installing it using apt-get), I used the following command from the old server (which already had rsync):
rsync -r -H -p -o -g -t -v -e ssh /home
root@target.server.com:/
-r = recursive copy
-H = copy hard links
-p = retain permissions
-o = retain owner
-g = retain group
-t = retain time stamps
-v = verbose
-e ssh = encrypt with ssh
/home = the directory you wish to transfer (can be a full path)
root@target.server.com = log on to targer.server.com as root user
:/ = this means to transfer the files to the root directory of the target server
Since /home goes in the root directory, targeting / works. If you had to copy a more specific directory such as /home/user25 you would want the last part to say /home