hi there barstowkid,
i have never really used a gui for apache, i have found the editing of the httpd.conf file to be more beneficial...the learning of it is tedious and long but u will have a much more indepth and correct understanding of apache! (aslo do searches on httpd.conf. it brings up stacks of examples)
however i have found the "webmin" tool is useful in some cases, although it is terrible in other aspects!!
other then that i cant help u very much
sorry
Ed.