Thanks JonathanWilson,
I understand that Nautilus works in the background. I have some external HDDs which connect via USB. When I unmount them I see a dialog that Nautilus is completing writes to the drive.
As to my poor SD card... I put it back in the built in SD card reader in my netbook - what I had originally purchased it for - and tried slamming a DVD size file (nominal 4.4 GB or so) to it. It wrote at about 9 GB/s until it hit the 4 GB limit for a FAT 32 file system
So I formatted the card for ext2 then I got some errors about could not mount - even though it seemed to mount. So I went back with fdisk, created a Linux partition, created an ext2 file system and tried again. The file copied from the SSD on the netbook to the SD card at a consistent 9.1 MB/s.
Now why am I doing this
Oh yes! I plan to put a couple of DVD size gpg files on the SD card to store data securely in the event I take the netbook on the road. Looks like I am good to go with that part.
As to the strange performance of the USB dongle reader thing... I think it is probably not SDHC compatible. Back when I purchased it a 1 GB SD drive was BIG. I will try it again and if I get similar results I may drop $8 at Wally World and get one which is labled for SDHC - or just copy the files across the network.
Ken