You should add the cdrom to your fstab file:
/dev/hdb /mnt/dvd auto noauto,ro,user 0 0
Those are the settings i use for my dvdrom on Gentoo.
try this:
tux Desktop # dmesg | grep hda
ide0: BM-DMA at 0xf400-0xf407, BIOS settings: hda
MA, hdb
MA
hda: BENQ DVD LS DW1655, ATAPI CD/DVD-ROM drive
hda: ATAPI 48X DVD-ROM DVD-R CD-R/RW drive, 2048kB Cache, UDMA(33)
hda_codec: Unknown model for AD1988, trying auto-probe from BIOS...
tux Desktop # dmesg | grep hdb
ide0: BM-DMA at 0xf400-0xf407, BIOS settings: hda
MA, hdb
MA
hdb: BENQ DVD-ROM 16X, ATAPI CD/DVD-ROM drive
hdb: ATAPI 50X DVD-ROM drive, 512kB Cache
Also do in /dev from konsole:
ls -l | grep hd
And see if something like this pops up:
lrwxrwxrwx 1 root root 3 Feb 25 2007 dvd -> hdb
lrwxrwxrwx 1 root root 3 Feb 25 2007 dvd1 -> hda
lrwxrwxrwx 1 root root 3 Feb 25 2007 dvdrw1 -> hda
brw-rw---- 1 root cdrom 3, 0 Feb 25 2007 hda
brw-rw---- 1 root cdrom 3, 64 Feb 25 2007 hdb