Hacked it guys !!
edit /etc/fonts/fonts.conf
its an XML file just add the following line
<dir>path to ttf fonts </dir>
my path to ttf fonts is
/usr/X11R6/lib/X11/fonts/ttf
then l'n'feel fonts will show all ur ttf fonts select & revamp the look and feel
this time it was an absolute Hack had to spend a few hrs anyway ..