ok well I am posting from within my new install. it still has boot issues.... but editing the kernel line in grub with
irqpoll
skips past the junk. dont know why???? havent fully tested anything to see if the errors actually are effecting anything... but im sure as hell glad to boot. I havent had this many issues since I first started with debian about 6 years ago!
thanks for everyone who offered help, you guys are the best tech support I ever dealt with, and I didnt even buy anything from you