When you type iwconfig you should see something like this...
lo no wireless extensions.
dummy0 no wireless extensions.
eth0 no wireless extensions.
eth1 no wireless extensions.
wlan0 IEEE 802.11g ESSID:"linksys"
Mode:Managed Frequency:2.437GHz Access Point: 00:20:2A:98:78:E8
Bit Rate:11Mb/s Tx-Power:25 dBm
RTS thr:2347 B Fragment thr:2346 B
Encryption key
ff
Power Management
ff
Link Quality:97/100 Signal level:-89 dBm Noise level:-256 dBm
Rx invalid nwid:0 Rx invalid crypt:0 Rx invalid frag:0
Tx excessive retries:10 Invalid misc:4378 Missed beacon:0
And the net connection should be the one with the managed if you dont see an access point i think there would be something wrong with the driver.
Try using ndiswrapper for your