Thanks simon for the info, i have managed to get it working, and thats exactly what the problem was, poor packaging, the trickiest part was getting the start icon to work, for that I had to:
open gconf-editor
goto apps/panel/objects/object_o - then click custom icon, then change menu path to where the icon is.
One thing i want to note is I had a really hard time finding gtk2-engines-pixbuf in synaptic. I say really hard because I have actually done this twice, the first time it was right there, the second time i really had to search around for answers and found out that i needed to install the synaptic repositories, which worked, but i never had to do it the first time. Im still clueless as to why it worked out like that but it works now and thats all i care about.
