OK...Seems to have been the Windows driver for the Broadcom bcm43xx chipset.
So I got rid of ndiswrapper, and obtained the associated drivers from
http://bcm43xx.berlios.de/ ,following the instructions
here.
After installing everything (and a few recompiles ,etc later) I'm now online with a NATIVE LINUX BROADCOM WIRELESS DRIVER. Yep. Dats right.
After that, the applets mentioned before work perfect.
Now, I just have to get wpa working with it (was working fine with ndiswrapper. I think it's just a config thing. Will let you know)