Thank you ryanoa, reading your posts pointed me in the right direction, my eth0 died and i had to switch to eth1 (onboard)
just wanted to add that after doing all you said i needed to
Code:
/sbin/dhcpcd -d -t 10 eth1
hopefully this will help some other fellow newbies
(ps. every time i have a problem, use "search" or google around i end up getting the answer from fellow slackers)
now, on to try doing the same on gentoo/freebsd partitions....