The "admin" is the hotel's service contract which only answers questions in exchange for money. As far as the hotel goes, their network is working therefore; "the problem is mine." Also, they do not use wireless at this place, only wired.
I am just wondering if anyone has experienced "handshake packets, but no real traffic" on a network connection, and what I might try the next time I experience it. I just found "Ethereal" in Synaptic. I will use that to view the limited transactions I get. Thank you for suggesting downloading some tools.
Everything seems obvious when other people make suggestions...