Hi cantaim.
Welcome to LQ! I hope you find great help and a great and helpful community here.
The thing that you need is a fundamental change of thought process. Doubleclick install does not give you the control, while compiling from source gives you a whole tonne of power available to you. The basic things to type are:
Code:
./configure
make
make install
You might find
the wiki helpful.
titanium_geek