I'm sorry, I was still sleeping when I wrote the previous post: I wrote several times "ugrade " instead of "update"...
Anyway, I solved the first half of the problem: now I can see the multisession CD directories in gtoaster, so I can manually update it: the cause was a strange (for me, a
...) value in gtoaster mountpoint option,
egexp, instead of /mnt/cdrom1...
Now I'm still asking you for the second problem, the possibility of an automatic update like in Nero: is it possible?