I found the Issue, it the default implementation of the ke-liu code. In there the radio range is set to 40m and hello packet interval to 5.0s by changing these parameters I was able to establish a connection.
wireless-gpsr.tcl from line 103 to 113
Code:
# The transimssion radio range
#Phy/WirelessPhy set Pt_ 6.9872e-4 ;# ?m
#Phy/WirelessPhy set Pt_ 8.5872e-4 ;# 40m **comment it
#Phy/WirelessPhy set Pt_ 1.33826e-3 ;# 50m
#Phy/WirelessPhy set Pt_ 7.214e-3 ;# 100m
Phy/WirelessPhy set Pt_ 0.2818 ;# 250m **uncomment this line to change radio range to 250m
# ======================================================================
# Agent/GPSR setting
Agent/GPSR set planar_type_ 1 ;#1=GG planarize, 0=RNG planarize
Agent/GPSR set hello_period_ 1.0 ;#Hello message period **reduce the time tinterval to 1.0s