I can answer your problem.
I can see you come from a windoooowzzz background.
Thing's you should know.:
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*Unix does not use memory like windows.
*Unix will Always use 100% of your computers memory (if you did not know that you do now.)
If you want to understand why this is so.
I am shure there is lots of books/url's out there explaining the way UNIX uses memory.