I can't post attachements here, so you can't see what the output looks like, but here is the preamble and figure insertion commands I used. I think it turned out nicely. The figure is embedded within the text.. I have just included whtat I think are relative snippets.
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\noindent \begin{flushleft}where $\chi$ denotes distorted waves. \end{flushleft}
Equation (\ref{10}) refers to four different vectors: $\vec{r}_{n}$,
$\vec{r}_{p}$, and $\vec{r}_{d}$ and $\vec{r}_{pn}=\mid\vec{r}_{p}-\vec{r}_{n}\mid$.
The geometry of the reaction is presented by Figure \ref{1} . It
can be seen that only two of the four vectors depicted are independent.
The vectors $\vec{r}_{d}$ and $\vec{r}_{p}$ are associated with
the distorted waves corresponding to the incident and scattered particles.
The vector $\vec{r}_{pn}$ is necessary to describe the internal deuteron
state. The vector directed from the target nucleus to the center of
mass of the deuteron system is denoted as $\vec{r}_{d}$, and the
vector directed from the proton to the neutron within the incident
deuteron system is denoted as $\vec{r}_{pn}$. If it is desired to
chose $\vec{r}_{d}$ and $\vec{r}_{pn}$ as the coordinates of integration,
the other coordinates can be expressed in terms of these.
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\begin{figure*}
\begin{center}\includegraphics[%
width=1.0\textwidth]{figure1.eps}\end{center}
\caption{\label{1}Reaction Geometry}
\end{figure*}
\begin{flushleft}The equations of transformation in this case are
given by:\end{flushleft}
Hope this helps. It correctly refers to Figure 1 in both the labeling of the figure and inside the text discussing it. Oooops...nevermind...my referencing is not that good, and I have figure references actually pointing to equations later in the paper (I never label or refer to equation 1 explicitly, so that I can label the figure as 1 and refer to it...latex just gets the equation numbering right at the time its processed). Oh well, looks like I cludged things manually and referencing wasn't too important, just printing out the number correctly, which I would have to change if I inserted more figures, equations, or changed their order. Sorry....