Hi !
On my network I have a snort IDS, checkpoint 4.1 FW , Tripwire on the
servers in the DMZ,windows 2000 domain and some other things.

I am looking for a solution that with this product or configuration I will
be able to centralize all the logs from all those differnt network elements.
I also want that when there is an an attack on my network It will pop up on
my screen and send me an sms. or whan something is not going well on the
network for example there is a broute force attack on on of my internal or
external server I will be known about.

Is there a product like this or applicarion/configuration.

I dont mind paying for this stuff.

THX

Take a look at swatch http://swatch.sourceforge.net/. It checks for specific strings in log files and takes an action when it finds a string. The action certainly could be a pop-up box or SMS, if your system was capable of sending SMSs.