Hi
I've got similar problems, but on the input chain
$IPTABLES -A local_in -m state --state INVALID -j log_invalid
This rule occasionally kicks out packages as 'INVALID' when I copy large files to samba from a windoze machine.
This results in 'delayed writes' and lost data in windoze.
I removed the IPTABLES statement above, and all appears to be fine when I copy
Problems started when I upgraded my Slack 10 kernel from 2.4.26 to 2.6.10.
Before everything (eehhh. at least this) was fine.
I read some fora on the internet. There appears to be relations between the use of IPSec/VPN and dropping packets.
Unfortunately I do not have any experience with VPN/IPsec under Linux