Welcome to LQ
First of all, this is NOT a Windows forum. And you've posted it in the wrong section. If you're that desperate to fix the problem assuming you couldn't find any solution anywhere on the net, you should post this in the General section.
1)For your problem check the refresh rate settings of your monitor and read its manual to know what are the supported modes.
2)Windows ME is sh*t. Atleast get a 2000 or XP.
Don't be surprised if you don't get any more replies. I'm too generous...