Kmail? Am I Blind
 

AM I BLIND: I enter KMail and i want to set up an incoming SMTP server to get my emails. under network via add. The thing is i only see pop3 for incomming, is it justme or am i blind??

Umm, don't you use SMTP for sending mail and POP for receiving?
If you had an account with Freeserve, say, then your mail accounts would look like this:
receiving server: pop.freeserve.com
sending server: smtp.freeserve.com

AFAIK this is the way most POP type mail accounts work.