"i want the system to come to the command line and stop"
You can do this in any distribution by the simple change of changing the default run level in /etc/inittab. The run level for command line is 3 in Mandrake, Red Hat, and SuSE. For these three distributions edit /etc/initab and change:
id:5:initdefault:
to
id:3:initdefault:
".any other suggestions?"
The things that you are asking for are mutually exclusive. If you choose a distribution that is easy to install then it will be bloated and slow to some extent as first installed and the easier they are to install then the harder theyare to customize. If you choose a distribution, such as Slackware, which can be built mean and lean to your exact specifications then you will spend a lot of work doing the specification and initially you will not know enough to be able to set up Slackware well anyway.
If you are willing to pay for a distribution then I recommend that you buy SuSE as your first distribution. If you want a free distribution then I recommend Fedora. Six months from now when you have a good handle on Linux details then I recommend that you install Slackware and tailor it to exactly what you want.
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