What are the errors your are getting? Or is the queue just filling up? You should see errors in your log file (/var/log/mail or somesuch). Is the mail being rejected?
You probably just want
collen@example.net, not
collen@mail.example.net right? (I'm changing your test.nl to example.net, which is one of the "offical" example domains.)
1 Make sure the example.net has a MX record pointing to mail.example.net (Not your problem right now)
2. Take a look at ADDRESS_REWRITING_README in the postfix distrobution (on my debian box: /usr/share/doc/postfix/ADDRESS_REWRITING_README.gz)
3. postconf -e "masquerade_domains = example.net"
This will rewrite
collen@zzz.example.net to
collen@example.net
Hope this helps,
chris