Apologies. Forgot I had made this thread and didn't mark it solved. You are correct. In my testing for the specific port > specific wan I found tcptraceroute and was trying to verify my ports going the right way. They did not. But I much appreciate it. I had tried ping but it just showed my target, nothing in between.
At this point while I have my script mostly working it's been shelved for now. I'm sure my hardware was strong enough for a home lan but I was using
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0...?ie=UTF8&psc=1 . They do work but I'm fairly certain they are where my latency issues are. I removed my debian router and just plugged each wan into it's own router and doing the dns / dhcp on my server. My latency has never been better. I'm talking from 2k average through Debian router vs 50-60ms with a real router. I may try again with a proper pcix dual gigabit port card or something in the future. For now though I'm rolling quite nicely.
Thank you again for your answer.
