I bumped into exactly the same problem and solved just a moment ago, so i hope this could be a help for you, too.
As you have mentioned,
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/usr/bin/Xorg :0 -audit 0 -auth /var/gdm/:0.Xauth -nolisten tcp vt7
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this -nolisten tcp bit was the problem.
I commented the last line of /etc/X11/fs/config, which was saying
no-listen = tcp
(no wonder why couldn't have been grepped with "nolisten")
then added following lines to /etc/gdm/custom.conf
[security]
AllowRemoteRoot=true
DisallowTCP=false
finally I rebooted the system.
Xorg process now became as follows
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/usr/bin/Xorg :0 -audit 0 -auth /var/gdm/:0.Xauth vt7
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typed
# xhost +
on Xserver.
then typed
# export DISPLAY=192.168.0.1:0.0
# yast2
on the other machine(SLES9), where 192.168.0.1 is Xserver, and worked fine.