I highlight shadow_7 post - in my opinion dpms is the key, but IN ADDITION you have to check as well the power settings of your own desktop software (doesn't matter what you're using as sw and setting as general config in X, if the desktop thinks it has to go to sleep then it will).
On my side I have only this in my xorg.conf...
Code:
Option "DPMS" "off"
...which mirrors shadow_7 post recommendation and additionally I have this in my start scripts of X:
Code:
xset s noblank
xset s off
xset -dpms
With these settings my monitor is ok as long as I start X quickly enough after the initial boot (if I don't and wait for e.g. 5 minutes then for some reason things get screwed up) - I have now my server running since 3 weeks with the monitor off for most of the time and graphics are always ok on my monitor.
Cheers